in·am·o·ra·to

  1. a man who loves or is loved; male sweetheart or lover.

(Source: coloredmondays)

in·hu·mane
(adjective)

  1. not humane; lacking humanity, kindness, compassion, etc.  

en·dear·ing
(adjective)

  1. tending to make dear or beloved
  2. manifesting or evoking affection: an endearing smile